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Hey, its me again :)
Hey, remember answering me question ([Link](Mouse over link to see full location)) couple of weeks ago? Well, I could use your help again... :)
I will try to shorten it as much as possible - after the talk we had we continued talking regularly, and two weeks ago she quit working where we work...During the whole last week (where we didn't see each other at all) she was texting me daily just to start a convo, and one day when she saw I didn't answer she called and said stuff like "what?? I left work so you don't call anymore??" (jokingly of course). Yesterday she came to say an "official" goodbye to everyone at work, and I told her that she shouldn't even think about we don't staying in touch, and she said "of course!!".
I also talked with one of her (female) friends from work and told her about all that, she said she knows that I'm really important to her and that she likes me a lot, and that I should wait, but shouldn't count on it because we can't know what she thinks...
Well, what do YOU think? because I must admit I got a bit confused...Thanks :)
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This is a big improvement on her part. She is slowing opening up to you in a female way. She's actually allowing herself to become close to you, even if it is as just really good friends. Her friend is right; I can tell you are important to her, because if she left her job, she probably wouldn't have worried keeping a relationship with you, if you didn't mean anything to her. If her female friend says she likes you, than I'd believe it. Girls gossip, especially about cute boys, and boys that we like. She probably told her that she likes you because she really does, and the reason why she hasn't told you is maybe she doesn't want to tell you, and you push her into dating her. She just wants to keep how she feels for you on the down low so neither of you gets hurt, if things between you guys don't expand.
In my opinion, I think the cards are in your favor. Carry on the friendship you guys have, and let her know that you still care for her, and you are still waiting for her, when SHE is ready. Let her know as well, that you understand her reasons for not wanting a relationship, because if you two got together, you'd rather have ALL of her, and not just HALF. You understand? That kind of sound confusing to me, so I'm making sure it made sense to you, lol.
You want someone who can give you 100% and not 50% because of baggage from a past relationship. I think if you continue being there for her, and reminding her how you feel (without pushing it) she will begin to lean towards you, when she is ready to be in a relationship.
Thank you for coming to me. If you need anything else, don't heistate. If you feel like writing a book; than great. I don't mind, because Lord knows, my advice isn't short lol.
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