Question Posted Saturday December 10 2011, 8:34 pm
The past two times my boyfriend and I have had sex iv bleed really badly. We have had sex before and I haven't bleed like this before. Is there something I can do to stop this? Am I too tight or something? I don't know what to do!
Any advice appreciated.
Thanks
If you lost your virginity a while ago and you are still bleeding after sex you should see your GYN. I'm not a doctor and can only speculate as to why you are bleeding but it should not be happening.
Hopefully you are over 14 years of age. If so you can see any doctor in total confidentiality by law. Meaning you can make an appointment and see the a doctor without mom or dads permission. You may meet with your doctor without a parent being in the exam room with you. Anything you discuss with the doctor, are examined for or treated for by the doctor cannot be discussed with your parents by the doctor. By law for the doctor to relate anything about your visit the doctor needs a written release from you.
The law is called HIPPA which is a Federal Law with a specific section covering women's health and reproductive system. Women 14 and older are covered under this section. This section was written for situations like yours so women can visit a doctor if needed and are under 18 not wanting parents to know they are sexually active.
You can visit you own GYN or moms if you have not yet visited a GYN; or visit any of the Planned Parenthood clinics.
My advise is that you see a doctor as you should not be bleeding. The problem is probably not anything major. If I had to guess and you recently lost your virginity with your Hymen in tact at the time. I would say the probability is your Hymen is not fully ruptured and the doctor needs to finish removing it. This is a minor office procedure that will not hurt.
I must as an adult ask the you consider, if under 18, speaking with you mother about what is happening. My reasoning for this is as a minor your parents are responsible;e for your well being and should/need to know about things important to your health. This includes your reproductive health. As I said by law you need not inform your parents or get permission to seek a doctors help in resolving this particular issue.
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