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My uncle snooped and found out bout my relationship
My boyfriend and I have been having several issues ever since we began dating. So we decided to take a break. We then realised that we both wanted to be with each other so we were in the process of getting back together when my UNCLE snooped into my hard disk and saw pictures of us together and he told my mom and they made a huge deal out of it since the boy is not from the same religion as us and is not very rich. I am from India and all these make a huge deal! They even ended up calling my boyfriend and explaining to him how it will not work and so to not keep any hopes. My boyfriend feels that it is better to break it off now itself instead of letting it drag on and then hurting a ton of ppl and ultimately ourselves in case my family objects. I really don't know what to do. My boyfriend doesn't want this relationship anymore owing to the big deal my family made n the fact that we had tons of problems. What do I do? I can't chose between my family n him.
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I think it's wrong your uncle took it upon himself
and snooped looked at the pictures of you & your boyfriend even though he's your uncle & he isn't a stranger to you he invaded your privacy that isn't right same goes for him telling your mom &
getting her involved when she doesn't need to be
also them calling your boyfriend & telling him what they did that didn't need to be done & wasn't
necessary i think you need to try & save your relationship try & change your families mind about
the whole situation the same goes for your boyfriend the problems between you & him can be
fixed if the two of you are willing to put in the effort & fix them just because your boyfriend isn't the same religion as you doesn't make him a
bad person same goes for him not being rich a relationship shouldn't be based on how rich a person is or money i think you need to talk to your boyfriend & family try & straighten the situation out it's worth a shot you never know
until you try something good could come out of talking & i'm hoping for your sake & your boyfriend's that happens don't loose hope i still think your relationship can be saved even though your in the situation you are
Hope i brought some positively your way seems like
your in need of it(:
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Maybe its for the best?? If you had issues in the relationship then perhaps it would be better for you not to be with him at all. It doesnt matter how much you WANT it, the issues will never go away. And it seems as though there is nothing tying you to him, so best to end it.
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