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Loosing my virginity
Well I'm 17, female. Im still a virgin. I had the opportunity to loose it about 2 years ago but I wasn't ready but I am now. Since I'm a virgin an I'm single I don't want to just find a guy I'm friends with and be like "hey, wanna take my virginity?" because that seems kind of slutty. I don't really know how to go about this so I'd just like opinions.
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Your virginity is something very precious that should not be given away to just anyone. You are still VERY young. You may feel like you are ready (probably peer pressure)but if your in a hurry just to get rid of it believe me, you WILL REGRET it. You need to focus on your studies, and getting into a good college. Eventually the right person person will come along. Until then, enjoy life and date, but don't worry about "losing it." That's the best advice I can give you my dear.
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well try getting yourself all dolled up and go to a club with "1" of your friends wait for a guy to approach you and go for the pitch start a relationship with him then get it on;D
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honey,just go ahead!!!!nobody actually cares about how slutty u may sound!!!when it comes to sex,everything is allowed!!feel free!!!just like i do!!lol
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Lets start with the following paragraph and at the end I will include a link to a website I have given to other young ladies asking for similar advise.
The odds are against you marring the boy you give your virginity to, so be selective as to who you chose to be your first. Make sure you find someplace you can have your first sexual experience that is safe, relaxing and that you will be undisturbed. You should be on birth control for at least 30 days and always have him use a condom.
Finding a boy/man to give your virginity to is something you should be very selective about. Since this will be your first time you want someone who will be caring, who will take his time and most of all will be gentle. This is a tall order to find in a teenage male. Mostly for at you age teenage males still confuse lust and love. They have been doing so since they hit puberty. There are some boys out there that do know the difference and this is the type of boy you want to find.
For a female as you have pointed out, most cannot just jump into bed with a guy. There must be an element of love if she is going to share herself with him. The same is just not true for the male of the species.
I wish I could tell how to select you partner but I can't. What I will say is that you have waited this long so waiting until you find the right partner is worth waiting for. You will know him when you meet him. The chemistry will be right and when you tell him your a virgin he will make sure to make your first time a beautiful experience for you.
Look at the following link for other ways you can prepare.
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Maybe you have a close guys friend who you care about a lot or maybe you would rather be in a relationship first and then over time let it happen. There's no reason to rush I promise you it will happen when it's suppose to happen. Maybe you would rather close guy friend who you've known for awhile and someone who you trust.
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