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my sister is bashing me on twitter


Question Posted Wednesday November 23 2011, 7:12 pm

so, I'm naturally really quiet. My sister posted on twitter "when I was little my sister tried to kill me. Real sh**.. Over a lego."First of all I didn't try to kill her, I just threw something at all, that's it. She follows alot of people. I don't want people to think I'm a murderer or something You know the saying "its always the quiet ones" I don't want people getting the wrong idea, I'm a nice quiet person. I don't have a twitter, I was told by a friend that she put this. What do I do?! I don't want her bashing me like that on twitter. Heeeeelp!

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solidadvice4teens answered Wednesday November 23 2011, 9:23 pm:
You're over-reacting. She likely put it on her twitter because she thought most people yourself included would feel it funny or cute. How they'd get that you're the equivalent of a murderer from that I don't know.

As for bashing you unless you see further incidents or have past ones she did on twitter you can't make a case with parents or others that she's deliberately putting you down on purpose all the time.

Here's what you can do either laugh and let this one incident slide if she's never done this before or tell her that you NEVER speak of her even as joke in a negative light or at all on any social network to people she does and doesn't know.

Tell her that what she writes is seen by anyone who logs onto twitter and isn't fair. If she doesn't see she needs to be more responsible and it continues than build your mountain of evidence and tell your parents that it's to put it bluntly pissing you off and affecting your social status at school and you're the butt of jokes.

For now if this is the first time it happened try and laugh it off and realize that you are reacting with hurt feelings and haven't thought through whether it was a bad attempt at humor or malice. I would speak to her about it and ask how she would feel if you posted that about her or something equally or more embarrassing.

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