Question Posted Wednesday November 23 2011, 2:02 am
My boyfriend was recently finguring me and i didnt feel any pain shortly after i bled for a little and then it stoped. I'm a virgin and my hymin is not broken and his nails were short. Help!
It is possible that he has scratched you internally or partially torn or dislodge your Hyman. If the bleeding begins again I would suggest you see a gynecologist.
If you have not yet seen a gynecologist you should be seeing one every year if you are having your periods. It is also important to have a checkup regularly if indulging in this type of sex play as it is possible to get an STD from fingering; if the germ exists on your boyfriends finger.
I do not wish to totally scare you, only to make you aware. Your gynecologist can tell you more or you can do more research on the web about STDs and their transmission and how to protect yourself.
If your 14 or older there is a law called HIPPA which protects your privacy in these matters. Meaning you do not need parental permission to see a doctor about these mattes. Mom cannot, may not or cannot be in the exam room if you do not specifically invite her and your doctor cannot divulge anything that happens in that exam room, including anything you may be treated for. Your written permission is required to release information and you cannot be bullied into releasing that information.
This law allows you to meet with your doctor, ask any questions you have, be examined and treated in total confidence. No one but you and your doctor can know what goes on in the exam room and this applies to everyone in the doctors employ. Only you can release information ant the permission to release must be in writing witnessed by some one in the doctors employ. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.