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I CANT DEAL WITH MY MOM ANYMORE ! HELP !


Question Posted Sunday November 20 2011, 8:39 pm

okay so ever since my dad moved my mom has been a total ass.she puts my rhodesian ridgeback pup outside in the cold and lets him starve until she feels like feeding him , she took my phone away from me even though my dad payed for it and i was charging it at a friends house then she blocks me from going to this years black friday with my uncle and i have been waiting for that for a while. i got in trouble for fighting with her and now i got a court date. basically can someone help keep me sane . thanks

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adviceman49 answered Monday November 21 2011, 11:24 am:
The court date may be the best thing that ever happened to you. You will have an opportunity to tell your side of what is happening to you. You will need to have an advocate, even in juvenile or may be what is called family court. Make sure to ask for one.


You need to tell your advocate, who will be a lawyer what is going on. It sounds like mom is punishing you for misbehaving. If she is unjustly punishing you the court will take all of this under consideration and make the appropriate judgment(s).


Being summoned to court does not mean you are automatically guilty of anything. Remember you are innocent until proven otherwise even in juvenile proceedings. Being summoned to court only means that the officers who may have responded were unable to resolve the issue or felt this matter was better served in court.


Remember to ask for an advocate, lawyer; be truthful with the advocate and with the court. The truth is what will be judged by the court. Just because you have been summoned to court does not mean you will be punished. Mom will have to be there and you both get a chance to tell the judge your side of what happened and what has lead up to this. Be truthful, if the judge feels mom is wrong the judge will deal with mom.

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Xui answered Sunday November 20 2011, 9:21 pm:
Your mom may be having a hard time dealing with your father moving, Therefore by her actions she may need to seek some sort of counseling. Feeding a puppy whenever she feels like it is animal abuse and wrong. If your mother is showing signs of negligence then you should tell someone. A school counselor can help you or a close family member.

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