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I want a friend with benefits
Im 16/male and i want a friend like that
I mean like we can hang out and just chill together without any attachments and still do sexual stuff
Im tired of relationships that wont last so i decided maybe i should try this
I hope theres a girl out there willing to try it with me.
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the abovementioned advices? they are all right. listen to them.
You should find a good friend. A GOOD friend to share other activities with.
the "friends with benefits" thing is just so selfish, youre just thinking of your own satisfaction, HOW WOULD YOU THINK GIRLS WOULD LIKE THAT?
its so gross, yorue just using them then?
would YOU want to be like that? just USED and dumped? youre not a sex doll, you got feelings!!! youre human!! someone is meant for you out there, take it easy and it will be alright!!!
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Your to young to be tired on relationship mate. So I think your just want to get this "friend with benefits" out of curiosity and stupidity.
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Friends with benefits is an adult term for a relationship, not something a 16 year old should be looking for. In fact I should be giving you a lecture on abstinence and the perils of teenage sex. I somehow feel though I would be wasting my time.
One of the reasons an adult will look for a friend with benefits is not having the time to chase someone of the opposite sex to form a relationship. They are to bogged down in their career or Grad school to make time for a social life. That's where a friend with benefits comes in.
You're 16, you have the time for a social life. You need to learn the thrill of the chase. To be rejected, to have your face slapped a few times so that as you get older you have the social skills to move among your peers.
Right now your peer group says you need to have a steady girlfriend to hang out with and have to tag along with you when you are with your friends or hers. Sometimes these relationships last just weeks or months. Other times they will last years. What is important is that this is part and parcel of a teenage social life, something you need to experience and learn to live within that life experience.
So forget about looking for a friend with benefits for tow reasons. One it is wrong in the first place. Two you probably waste your time finding a girl of your age willing to participate in such an arrangement.
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This isn't a dating site dude
Also, You should keep in mind that having a friend with benefits can sometimes really mess with you mentally and emotionally. Although you have no intentions it could happen and sometimes it's either a good thing or not. Instead of focusing so much on trying to find a girlfriend try and find a friend and keep it casual for awhile. The best relationships usually start off as being friends anyway.
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