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my wife doesnt want to see me
Ok so I'm kind of being a chump about this but I've been working out of town the past few weeks and I asked my wife to come see me at the hotel and stay a night or two she says she doesn't want to because of money but I'm working out of town making money I Dnt understand y she wouldn't want to come so I guess I'm trying yo figure out the reasoning and what I should do
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This is a tough question to answer. If your wife is like my wife I would know she does not and is not comfortable driving on highways and would be very uncomfortable driving any distance if it involved highway driving.
If your wife won't or can't come to you; is there any reason you can't go home to her? I understand a romantic weekend in your hotel may be appealing to you; if not possible then you go to her.
You left out if you have children. If so what are the logistical problems in getting the children looked after for the weekend. I realize your looking forward to a nice comfortable probably sex filled weekend with your wife. Problem is what good are your fantasies if your wife arrives to exhausted to participate.
So before you consider yourself a "Chump" find out the reason. Your wife may have valid reasons for not making the trip. Her reasons may have nothing to do with what you may be thinking.
It is impossible to recall a bullet after it has left the barrel. If your thoughts are in the line I'm thinking they are and you act on them without investigation or talking to her first. You may be very sorry for whatever actions you take based on you thinking. Sort of shooting first and asking questions later. Bad examples but I think you get my meaning.
Talk to your wife first, then act if you must.
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Well the only one that would know the answer to that is your wife. Have you asked? Ask her. There could be a few reasons of why she doesn't want to. I don't think it means she lvoes you any less. Maybe she doesn't want to travel? Call her and talk to her and ask out the real reason why she won't come visit you.
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Thats a tough question.
Either she's being honest about the whole money thing, and doesn't want to waste any money, or she just doesn't feel comfortable coming and staying in a hotel.
If my husband was away at work for a couple of weeks, and invited me to come stay with him for a couple of nights, I'd be there before he could finish the sentence. Therefore, I'm not too sure why your wife wouldn't want to come see the man she loves.
I think the only way you can answer these questions, is by asking her. Sure she says money, but do you believe thats really it? You know your wife better than any of us on this website. If you don't believe money is the issue, than confront her about it, and see what she has to say.
If money really is the issue, explain to her that seeing her beautiful face is worth the money; and that you miss her laying next to you at night.
Woman love sweet phrases, especially if we haven't heard them in a while. (:
Than explain to her that the money spent on her staying, will be made within the next two days of working, so no money will be truely lost, ya know?
I hope everything goes well for you, and I'd love to hear more about this, and how it goes!
Good Luck<3
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