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Stuck between two guys :(
Ok, I been with my boyfriend basically for 4 years. we broke up because he went to the Dominican republic and cheated on me with someone else. we were off for 1 yrs and 2 months then When he came back he apologized and now we're back together. I still believe we have 4 years even though we weren't together the 4 full years. my boyfriend is 18 and so am I. There is this guy he is 23, I meat him 3 weeks ago, he is cute, and nice to be around with. He likes me and last night we ended up kissing. I really don't know what to do. I'm sure if i tell my boyfriend he's going to break up with me. there is no doubt about that. But I also like the other guy. I'm so confused right now. I know that i have to stay with only one but i don't know with which one :( can someone bare with me here and try to help me out. I will really appreciate it. thanks in advanced
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This happens so frequently as we grow up, and as a matter of fact, at one time I even felt I had to choose between two guys!
I was talking with one of my older friends who was already married and everything, and she said "if you have to choose between them, neither one will be THE one".
That being said- people change over time. You also need to get to know people before you actually fall in love and whatever- but the idea is that if you are really doubting your relationship with your boyfriend, he probably isn't the right one!
The best thing I have ever done is fall in love with my best friend, who looks at me everyday like I am the best thing he has ever had. Please don't settle for less than the best!
Best Wishes!
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well i think you should be treated better than how your boyfriend is treating you.if he really love you he would not of cheated. it may be true that you don't want your/his heart broken but look at it this way if you stay with him forever will you feel happy?
on the other hand i understand you like this guy u just meet i think u should know more about him if you haven't already done that, and make sure if you choose him their will be no regrets of your decision.
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You need to be hones with him AND you need to be honest with yourself..
when i say "be honest with yourself" i mean this- you do not love your boyfriend because if you did, you never would have even considered kissing another guy. If you truly loved your boyfriend, you wouldn't be considering breaking up with him. but since you are considering breaking up with him, you might as well do it.
You should talk to him and tell him the truth. see what happens. if he gets mad, you need to understand why he is mad. He cheated on you and i'm sure you were mad.. so you have to realize that he will probably be mad too. don't get mad at him for this.. its how he feels.
another thing to keep in mind.. if he cheated on you, and you cheated on him.. well that pretty much just says you both are thinking about other people. might as well break up so you can date other people without having to hide it.
good luck!
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