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Don't know if she is being truthful
Okay i know this is probably not a big thing but i really don't if my girlfriend is being truthful to me about her sex life or her Sexual orientation okay like i ask my girlfriend tons of times do like girls too because i notice she notices them a lot she judges them all the time and most of her friends are bisexual i know this is not a big deal but i will like to know if she is since we are having a baby together and i feel she will never tell me cause she lied to me at least 5 times before and i feel like she will never tell me because she is scared i may leave her when i told her i will never leave her when i asked the first time she got so defensive about it so it made me wonder so im asking do you think she is and what should i do ????????
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I honestly think if you two are having a baby together there are much more important things to worry about then her sexual orientation. That should really not even cross your mind for a period of reasons. 1, Your girlfriend is with you 2, You two are having a baby together and you are now asking her this? You are right, It isn't a big deal and it shouldn't be big enough that you would still be questioning her like that. Worry about the baby and act like adults not little curious teenagers.
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Hey there!
What I would do is try to ask either a mutual friend or one of her friends in private. Then you could get some answers.
If you don't then you need to sit her down and ask her yourself.
However, not yet. The thing is about pregnany is that a womans mood changes all the time. And it's not fair on her to be confronting her during pregnancy, as this could cause unnecessary stress with, trust me, a woman DOES NOT need at this time in her life. Don't ask he either untill about a month after the baby is born, as this period of time is crucial for the baby and mother to begin bonding in, and I feel personally that this is not the best time to be questioning her. But ask her after this, making sure she knows that you love her unconditionally and will always stick by her no matter what for the babys sake.
Also, once you have a baby so many things that were complicated before just don't matter no more. Just forget it for now, help her through pregnancy and you may find that you simply don't care about this anymore. Good luck with it all :)
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