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Is he a good guy or a bad one?
Hey Im 16 and a senior in highschool. I met this guy in an interschool competition. He's the same age but is a senior in some other school. We started talking after the competition and became good friends. We have gone out on three dates till now. And yeah, we have kissed each other and made out a little. We cannot resist each other at all. But the problem is that even though he says he is falling for me, he keeps telling me he cannot date me cause he's a bad guy and he cares for me too too much to hurt me. He says he is not one of those dateable guys who will love their girl completely and he might find a new girl and dump me.That would hurt me and he doesnt want to do that! He also liked this girl a year back and he says he feels guilty that he got over her and fell for me! But when we meet we actually act like we are dating, cause he gets me stuff, he tells me he loves me, we hold hands. I dont know what to do. Because I really want to be with him. But cant figure out how to make him ask me out? and if he is really a bad guy? HELP.
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Well that is a diffcult question, it could be that he doesn't want a real relationship. You have to tell him how you feel because if you don't then he could easily cheat on you and it wouldn't be that bad cause two aren't dating. If he says he is a bad guy but there really isn't any evidence that he cheats and stuff then that probably means he's either lying and try to find some lame excuse to not going out with you or he's hiding something. Just take the plung and ask him on a date see how he reacts. Do you like him? Do you think about him all the time? Do you want him to be your boyfriend? If you answered yes to all of those questions then you have your answer. Go after what you want and get your man.
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Hey,(This is a bit lengthy)
I know it's a great feeling when you meet someone that you really like, but your situation does have a downfall :-/. You and this guy are already more than friends, but he doesn't plan on you alls relationship going any farther than where it's at right now. With him, you can really respect and appreciate his honesty, because he makes it clear that if you two were in something more serious, he would probably not be deicated to you only, and what girl wants that? Most guys are not truthful about that, so I wouldn't say he's a bad guy, he's just not ready for a commitment. That being said, you need to beware! As ladies, we tend to fall harder emotionally, even when we know it's not what's best for us. You probably don't want to continue falling for him if you know he's not going to let himself fall for you. I'd advise you to cut off the physical actions between you two, and make sure that you understand that you two are just friends. If he wants more out of you alls relationship, he'll make some changes.
Hope I helped =)
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