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im ashamed of myself and my sister
long story my sis found out i have a foot fetish and now she rubs her feet in my face and once gave me a semi footjob and i feel sick because i enjoyed it and im starting to get excited from it is this normal PS:this isnt a troll im serious i feel ashamed to look at my sis and my gf and i dont need someone telling me that this is a troll
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I think it is normal to get excited from it; she is a woman and she is sexually stimulating you, so it's only natural for your body to react. What is not normal is allowing or encouraging your sister to continue sexually pleasuring you.
You need to talk to your sister and put your foot down (no pun intended) about this. You both have to agree to stop everything that could put you in this situation. That means she should not be touching you with her feet, and you should not allow her to. Having her rub her foot on your leg or your arm might start innocently enough, but you know where it can lead and you have to stop yourself before it gets that far.
As for telling your girlfriend, that is entirely your choice. Only you have an idea of how she will react. If you keep it to yourself, you will have to deal with that shameful secret for all the time you stay with her. But if you tell her, she could leave you or tell other people. Do you think she would tell other people? Do you think she might leave you? Or do you think she might forgive you, so long as it never happens again? Maybe you feel she deserves to know no matter how she might react. Think carefully and make your own decision on what to do.
If you tell her, make sure she knows just how utterly ashamed you are; that will help show her that you didn't intend for this to happen, that you truly regret it, and that you will never let it happen again. Don't be stoic about it because that makes it look like you don't think it was a big deal.
If this continues to bother you or you feel like you cannot control yourself around your sister, you should find a counselor. A counselor or therapist can help you find solutions to this problem and also help you deal with your shame. Honestly, you haven't done anything really horrible (it seems like your sister keeps initiating it, even); mainly you've gotten yourself into an embarrassing situation that is very taboo. Your actions and reactions aren't evil, but they are not socially acceptable and continuing this could ruin every meaningful relationship you have. So don't drown yourself in self-hatred, but do take steps to stop this right away.
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