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Is It Okay to Have Work Crush?
I kind of have a crush on a guy, even though I'm in a relationship right now. I am very happy with my boyfriend and don't intend to leave him for this guy.
This isn't the only time that I've had a work crush before when I was dating someone. I tend to find a cute guy who seems awesome, the kind of guy that I'd go for if I was single.
I'm feeling kind of guilty though, because my boyfriend always tells me that I'm the most beautiful girl in the world. I love him because he is the most sweetest, caring guy that I've ever been with, and he treats me amazingly, among other reasons.
Is it okay to have a work crush if you're in a relationship with someone else?
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I think it's fine as long as you don't let it get into something more than a crush.
I'm with my boyfriend but I'm always going to see other guys I think are cute and I'm pretty sure my boyfriend sees other girls he thinks are cute but it's not like we're gonna go ahead and cheat or let it get into something more than just a little crush.
As long as you watch yourself and keep your heart where it belongs, it's fine.
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There are many opinions on this subject matter. My opinion is that's its fine. I'm in a relationship right now with a great guy who I love dearly but I sometimes catch myself saying "oh that guy is cute". It doesn't mean I'm going to do anything about it because I love my boyfriend and I respect him. It's fine to have a little crush but at the end of the day you're with your boyfriend. Now if you were to have a crush and cheat then I would say that's a problem and its unfair.
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I do not think it is okay, but it is definitely normal. I know how you feel, but sometimes when one is in a relationship and has a crush on another guy then the crush may grow into something else. What I would do if I were you is to put myself in your boyfriend's shoes and try to imagine how he would feel if he knew what you were feeling. No likes to feel cheated or unloved. What if your boyfriend had a crush on another girl, would you care? If you like another guy then your boyfriend lacks something or your crush is just infatuation or lust and possibly would go away.
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