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What was the meaning of us even talking?
Hello 16f
I'll try to make this short, and I guess this isn't as big of a deal than I think it is but still..
Well, I met this guy on this one site I was using and we started talking about one of my favorite movies I like, Heathers. Our conversation was simply amazing, and it was the best convo I had with a guy since my ex and I first started dating.
He was afraid to tell me his age, after I told him mine..later on I find out he's 28. It didn't really bother me since I just liked talking to him, nothing more. We talked on MSN, for a lonnnggg time and he told me he doesn't want to talk to me anymore because of his age.. and I hate this because just when I find a guy who I can relate to, he's way older than me.
He's apparently married to.. so ;/ Oh well, I just wondered if there was any POINT of us even talking..and relating like we did? I know we just talked for one day, but I never related to someone so well.. and it's depressing.
I don't want to hear .. oh he's a perv blah blah.. I know he's to old for me and I have no meaning to be with him. I know there is NO chance..but I just want to know what the hell the point was? I just want to find a sweet guy..that's all.
Thanks. ;/
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
I've had many conversations with guys that I've talked to once online and it sucks. I make a connection with them and then I never hear from them again. I guess in a way its just nice to socialize and maybe take away something from the conversation. It's fine if he's married to talk to him as long as there is a boundary. I work with a guy who is married and we talk all the time. I'm in a relationship and my co-worker knows that so its fine. We are friendly and that's it.
Unfortunately if he doesn't want to speak to you because of your age than thats his decision and you should respect that. Keep your head up and don't let this get you down!
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There is no point
This man is much older and is likely looking to cheat on his wife, He told you he doesn't want to talk to you consider this a smart move on both of your behalves. A man over the age of 18 who has intentions of trying to have a romance with someone much young obviously has issues. You know it, He knows it. If you want someone to talk too try talking to someone on facebook that you know or go to school with.
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There is no point in you talking to him.
Not because of his age, but because he told you that he feels there is no point in you talking.
(Which is most likely code for "I don't want a friend, I want to screw around on my wife, but I just can't do that with a sixteen year old.")
Trolling the internet for connections with other women is questionable enough. To make that kind of semi-romantic, semi-sexual online connection with you, a young teen would take his actions from 'pretty lousy' to 'absolutely monstrous'.
So there is no point in talking to him for two reasons:
ONE He can't actually offer you what you want in a friendship or a romance. You both know it. You want a sweet guy. At best, he knows he can't be that, at worse he wants an 'other woman'.
TWO He's probably trying to do something kind of lousy at the moment. You'll be happiest and healthiest if you stay away men who have those intentions.
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