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i want to commit suicide .i have bitched my parents and have lost all hopes
i love a guy. i am basically indian and also from orthodox family. that guy has a love failure .he loves that girl even now. initially he was my friend.slowly i started getting those kinds of feelings.i proposed him.he never said no to me at the same time never said yes. his health is in worse condition. we have spoken about sex also.these days he does not like talking to anyone .i had a horrible fight with him last night.its my fault completely .i expected more from him.i love him so much.cant live without him and neither can i hide this matter from my parents. i think the easiest way is to commit suicide.i need ur advice.
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I don't know how you are doing now. In case, I wanted to give you these 2 numbers, so you can get some support on this easily. Both these numbers are confidential, so there are no worries about anyone finding out anythings about what you say.
And both are open 24 hours a day:
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
1-800-273-8255
(1-800-273-TALK)
Samaritans of New York
1-212-673-3000
good luck and let us know how it goes
much love,
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Firstly, I'm from an Indian family too, so I get what you mean about your parents. SUICIDE is NOT the way to go. REALLY. I'm going to be honest here so it might seem rude but I'm not trying to be. It would help if you said how old you were. Can you like marry now? Ask yourself if you know for sure that this guy really loves you.. likes you at least! If he's still not over that other girl, then face it, he's not falling for you. However, either he might like you a little bit because you're saying he hasn't said no or he's just using you. Now, I don't know this guy so you're going to have to decide what the situation is. If you really love him, then just apologize to him and become good friends again. Maybe you can even try to get him over that other girl. But there's no use telling your parents unless you both love each other and want to get into a relationship! Whatever you do, DON'T COMMIT SUICIDE! Your life is too precious to be ended over things like these!
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Committing suicide is not the answer to your problem. No person is worth killing yourself over. Your life is much more important why would you ever want to hurt yourself because of another person?
Okay first off, it sounds like he either has a girlfriend or he likes this other girl. If he ahs a girlfriend than you need to give him space.
Second off, after proposing to him has he mentioned it ever since? Just because he didn't say no it doesn't mean he is going to say yes. If you had a fight last night give him sometimes and some space think. Maybe he needs to be alone and away from people you don't know. I like my time away from friends and even my boyfriend sometimes.
I'm sure you can live without him and I'm sure you don't mean you're going to kill yourself. you might be upset at the moment but that doesn't mean you need to take your life away.
I think you need to talk to someone maybe a guidance counselor or even a therapist.
You need to relax and think things through!
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