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Advicelady6798
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i love a guy. i am basically indian and also from orthodox family. that guy has a love failure .he loves that girl even now. initially he was my friend.slowly i started getting those kinds of feelings.i proposed him.he never said no to me at the same time never said yes. his health is in worse condition. we have spoken about sex also.these days he does not like talking to anyone .i had a horrible fight with him last night.its my fault completely .i expected more from him.i love him so much.cant live without him and neither can i hide this matter from my parents. i think the easiest way is to commit suicide.i need ur advice. (link)
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Firstly, I'm from an Indian family too, so I get what you mean about your parents. SUICIDE is NOT the way to go. REALLY. I'm going to be honest here so it might seem rude but I'm not trying to be. It would help if you said how old you were. Can you like marry now? Ask yourself if you know for sure that this guy really loves you.. likes you at least! If he's still not over that other girl, then face it, he's not falling for you. However, either he might like you a little bit because you're saying he hasn't said no or he's just using you. Now, I don't know this guy so you're going to have to decide what the situation is. If you really love him, then just apologize to him and become good friends again. Maybe you can even try to get him over that other girl. But there's no use telling your parents unless you both love each other and want to get into a relationship! Whatever you do, DON'T COMMIT SUICIDE! Your life is too precious to be ended over things like these!
Hope I helped
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Ever since middle school, I have always made up friends. I always thought it was normal. I just wanted to show people that I had friends out of school. Then, I start creating fake Facebook and myspace pages for them. I know it's weird but it made me feel better. I would post things on my account, and with the fake accounts I would reply to myself. I am aware that this is really weird, but everytime I reply to myself I feel a lot better. I've been diagnosed with depression, anxiety, and PTSD... So it's like I get comfort Through true fake accounts even though I know itself. Not only that, but I talk to myself. A lot. And many times I feel like I'm talking to another person, but I know it's myself.
Could I be schizophrenic? Or what is this? I am really tired of it all. (link)
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All of this depends, really. But I won't go as far as calling you a schizophrenic. There are a few things you could do to make you feel better. Do you have any friends at school? If you do, you should try to spend more time with them and maybe you'll stop all this. But if you don't maybe that's why you want it to seem like you have friends at least outside school. I don't really have friends either so I get you if that's what's happening. When you feel lonely stop creating accounts and chatting with yourself. Find something you really like and concentrate on it completely. It could be anything, like singing, painting, or even listening to music. But just do it, it'll make you feel better. If its nothing like that and you just want to feel like you have friends outside school, I suggest you start making some real ones. Go to the park, the library or something and talk with real people, I'm sure you'll feel good when you really do have friends there. And half of what you do might just be because you think you are depressed. You might not be that depressed, you know! So cheer up! :D
Hope that helps, and sorry if it was too long :)
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