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i am so sick of getting hurt!
i just feel so alone. i mean i have felt like this before but not as much. i think i know why though. it's just that i have 5 close friends right? 1 of them let's call her Sarah (my best friend) doesn't have time for me anymore because she recently got a boyfriend. the other double faced one: Stacia. she's a snob. she has a boyfriend and everyone seems to love her. she's more of a frenemy than a friend. the third: Kristy. she's stacia's shadow. and she and even sarah sometimes end up hurting me when they're around stacia only. then there's lara who's really nice and all. she just got a boyfriend and as you can see i'm not the most popular with the guys... or girls for that matter. i just want to know how i can make a new group of friends. i want to be more outgoing and forget my the friends i have right now. but how? i just end up getting hurt when i'm with them everytime.
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hi there sweetheart
i think your friends arent friends at all.
you need to surround yourself around friends who actually care about you and who will be there for you no matter what...
you need to realise that having friends is all about having people around you who care and love you. your friends should be there always no matter what and lift you up and not bring you down.
i say just be yourself... innitiate conversations with people... just be yourself... start at school... where ever... you will see what a true friend is and will soon realise that you "friends" now are nothing but people who dont deserve a friendship like yours.
dont fear people... talk to them,you will see that making friends is so much easier than you think...
you sound like a very nice person so dont be afraid.... dont over think things and go for it....
just believe in yourself and you will see you will attract positive people....
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Join a club of some sort. The whole point of a club is to bring people with a common interest together. You are pretty much guaranteed to make a friend if you go to one with a genuine interest in what the club is about.
This does not have to be something held at the school. If you want to meet people outside of school, maybe you can join a religious youth group.
Volunteer work is also a possibility.
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