Member Since: October 10, 2011 Answers: 3 Last Update: October 10, 2011 Visitors: 863
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i just feel so alone. i mean i have felt like this before but not as much. i think i know why though. it's just that i have 5 close friends right? 1 of them let's call her Sarah (my best friend) doesn't have time for me anymore because she recently got a boyfriend. the other double faced one: Stacia. she's a snob. she has a boyfriend and everyone seems to love her. she's more of a frenemy than a friend. the third: Kristy. she's stacia's shadow. and she and even sarah sometimes end up hurting me when they're around stacia only. then there's lara who's really nice and all. she just got a boyfriend and as you can see i'm not the most popular with the guys... or girls for that matter. i just want to know how i can make a new group of friends. i want to be more outgoing and forget my the friends i have right now. but how? i just end up getting hurt when i'm with them everytime. (link)
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hi there sweetheart
i think your friends arent friends at all.
you need to surround yourself around friends who actually care about you and who will be there for you no matter what...
you need to realise that having friends is all about having people around you who care and love you. your friends should be there always no matter what and lift you up and not bring you down.
i say just be yourself... innitiate conversations with people... just be yourself... start at school... where ever... you will see what a true friend is and will soon realise that you "friends" now are nothing but people who dont deserve a friendship like yours.
dont fear people... talk to them,you will see that making friends is so much easier than you think...
you sound like a very nice person so dont be afraid.... dont over think things and go for it....
just believe in yourself and you will see you will attract positive people....
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Hello..My sister has been having this problem for about a year now..every time she goes to the doctor they give her birth control pills to stop the bleeding. Well when she get's her period it sometimes last for a month and when it stops it starts like 2 weeks or 3 weeks later. I know that is strange and is definitely not healthy. She has been feeling very weak and she doesn't normally get cramps but they have been very bad lately. Also she went to the hospital and they did a lot of tests but they didn't do anything for her just sent her to a specialist. She cannot afford that. It's getting so bad i mean while she is on her period for like a month it's heavy non-stop and last year when she went to the doctor they said her blood count was 8.2 which means she might need a blood transfusion but she didn't get one because she cannot afford it or have insurance.
Do you know what could be a possible cause for this problem? I am afraid this is a threat to her life. Also do you know what she could do?? I don't know where else to go for help.
Sorry this is so long! (link)
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hi
this is not something you can play around with... abnormal bleeding is a very serious matter!!!
i had an aunt who bled really bad and heavy for weeks and it turned out she had like tumers(non cancerous) growing in her womb and that caused the bleeding. she eventually had to have a historectamy(excuse my spelling) and now all is well.
is there no other doctors that she cam go to for a second opinion? i wish i could help more but abnormal menstrual bleeding is never a good thing and if she needs blood its coz she is hemraging too much....
please i beg you to please get other opinions on this matter as a loss of too much blood is detremental .
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hey guys my folks am the eldest one in my family and my folks want me to get married to the girl they choose but i am not ready for it yet i want to study for my boards which is very time consuming as my younger siblings are very much eager to get married and i am sort of a hinderence for their marriage as i come from a orthodox family where the eldest one is supposed to get married first its been really bothering me a lot ...and i am sort of really depressed about it and have absoulutely no clue what to do about it .i respect my parents very much and dont like to hurt them either . (link)
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hi there
how are you?
well i dont know if my advise will be of any help to you but then again it is only my advise...
personally,i think you should sit down with your parents and talk to them about how you feeling.... i know somethimes you might think that its not the best thing to do as you might not know how they would react etc but somethimes the simplist solutions work the best...
i know sometimes its not as easy as just talking to them but i say give it a go.... what have you got to lose?
however you need to be sencere and respectful when doing so... try make them understand your views in life and try get them to see the situation from your perspective....
if this doesnt help why not talk to a family member who can help you persuade your parents other wise?
i hope this helps....
wishing you all the best
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