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Am I a Bad Kisser?
I've kissed quite a few people before and they had never told me that I was a bad kisser. Most of them continued trying to kiss me and I thought I was a pretty good kisser, I can even tie a cherry stem if that means anything. Not too long ago I kissed this one guy and then we stopped because my friend came up. I tried to kiss him later on but he told me no because he had just finished eating. I knew he didn't want to kiss me so I was going to get off of his lap but he didn't want me to. A few minutes later he iniciated the kiss and it got pretty steamy. When I was talking to my bestfriend she told me that after our first kiss he told her I was a bad kisser but he kept kissing me because he didn't want me to feel bad. If that were true, why did HE start kissing me later? Does that mean the other guys thought I was a bad kisser and didn't want to hurt me as well? I've never been told I'm a good kisser but I've never been told I'm a bad one. All of the other guys seemed to enjoy it a lot, based on their reactions. Later on that guy seemed to like it? My friend didn't mention anything about the second kiss, just the first.
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Ignore what these guys are saying. There are going to be the odd guys if every life who actually like how you kiss and others that don't like how you kiss... But it doesn't matter. Maybe it's because of "drooling" or maybe it's because of a genetic reason - lips are too small - in any case it shouldn't matter how guys think you kiss... If a guy really really really likes you.... Then he will love you for the pure and simple fact he gets the chance to do so. If these other guys are gonna be picky about it... Then toss them, they are not worth it.
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NO, you are not a bad kisser. The guy doesn't seem to appreciate what your kiss. Why does he have to judge your kissing style? I don't think you should feel bad if he called you a bad kisser because it is his opinion. YOUR opinion should be the one that should count the most to you. You never know, some other girl that he had kissed before might have told him that he was a bad kisser so maybe he wanted to make you feel bad. There are endless possibilities to what the guy might have felt when he kissed you at first, but trust me, don't take anything that anyone says to you personally.
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I've known girls who were bad kissers. God, that sucks. But I wonder if it is a chemistry thing. I've had women tell me I'm a good kisser, so I'm not the problem. It just could be that his kissing style doesn't match yours. It happens. Seven billion people, seven billion ways of doing things.
The other thing you have to realize is that kissing by itself isn't going to make a perpetually horny teenage guy boot you under the circumstance you describe. He also likes your soft body and you're probably a looker, too, so the overall experience with you is quite pleasant. Therefore, don't take what he said personally and put it down to just some arbitrary weirdness. That happens in life sometimes.
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Just cause one guy says that doesn't mean it's true. Plus the rest of them seemed to like it so don't worry about it. I'm sure you're fine.
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Simple, he's just not that into you. Move on.
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Just because one guy says something, doesn't mean everyone else thinks it's true.
A guy I was talking to just called me a slut, does that mean I am one? No.. and he knows I'm not.. he was just saying that to hurt me..which in the end made me laugh because he's mad he couldn't get in my pants.
Anyways.. back to you.. just because he told your friend that..doesn't mean it's true.. or perhaps your friend was just jealous and made that up to hurt you. Don't go by what one person said.. you have a world of fishes out there.
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