around 11 , 12 years old , i stuck a finger inside of me , but it didnt hurt . that same night my boyfriend stuck one finger inside of me , it hurt a little & i started to bleed & thats when i first started my period . im 17 now and im still a virgin and ive stuck two fingers inside and it hurted like loosing my virginity , but no blood came out . i stuck a tampon inside on the last day of my period & it didnt hurt as much . was my cherry popped when i was younger ?
Hymen can be broken by something as simple as riding a bike. However just to clarify in order for someone to loose their virginity they would have sexual intercourse not pop their cherry. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
adviceman49 answered Friday October 7 2011, 9:33 am: Breaking you Hymen, does not always mean you will feel pain or that you will bleed. Fingering and the use of Tampons as well as horseback riding and other strenuous athletics have been known to break a woman's hymen. You may also have a Hymen with a hole, all have them, big enough and elastic enough, that it accommodates the tampon and fingering with out breaking.
By the strict interpretation of virginity you are still a virgin. The breaking of your Hymen does not in itself mean loss of virginity. You become a non-virgin when you have your first sexual intercourse.
There are some that would say that when you allowed a boy to put his fingers in you that this was your first sexual intercourse. Here again by definition sexual intercourse happens when the male places his penis in the female vagina.
To my mind you are still a virgin as you have not had a sexual intercourse by definition. You can decide for yourself if you are a virgin or not. I have provided the definitions and the information you need to make the decision, but only you can decide what that decision is. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
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