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BFF dating my guy friend & have been excluded order wis & everything
Hi im 13/f. And I have a major dilemma! You see my BFF is dating my BGF, which is great I guess you could say because she had a huge crush on him and he finally decided to ask her out. Well, now the problem is all she ever talks about is him. & our other 2 bffs(were a group of 4 bffs) are really annoyed with it too. Were fine with her talking about him and everything but almost every single sentence has his name in it!! It's so annoying!! And all of us have been excluded from her and he tried to group us together totalk to each other but we couldn't do it because she would run off to him. We don't do any of the things we usually di in our usual routine. After lunch we would watch guys jump off swings & laugh but she refuses to do that now and she wants to go hang out with her bf. But at lunch she was emavaressed to look at him. She completely ditched us! And at lunch she was support to Dave me a spot but then her bf comes up and takes my spot and she knew it was for me but she gave it to him instead. & she doesn't even care. She even told me she gave it to him instead. She hardly talks to me now. & even when her bf & my BGF tries to make us talk to each other she just runs off with him. She doesn't realize that it's BFFs before bf. & he tried to tell her that too! & all of us in our group is so sick of the exclusion, & I don't wanna say brattybess but I have to, and not talking to us anymore. & we told her the realationship was gunna fall apart but she doesn't believe us. So we need your help please because were at our very edge of this and her!!!!! (my BGF & her bf has actually tried to help but she won't listen!) we really need your help please!!!!!
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I think you should just forget about it. She's just really excited about having a boyfriend and she isn't acting like a real friend, but these are things she needs to learn. In time when her boyfriend does break up with her or she realises how far away she's grown from her friends, she'll learn to balance both her relationships and her friends. It's hard to know how important it is to stay close to your friends when you're younger, but in a few years she'll understand.
Don't tell her they'll break up, and don't talk about her behind her back. She's happy and this is what she's chosen, so leave her to it. I would say try again to talk to her and tell her that she's upsetting you, but otherwise just let her be. Enjoy your time with your other friends and use this experience as a reminder for when you're in a relationship to not avoid your friends the way she has.
I hope she realises she's slowly losing some great friends, but until then focus on yourself, your school work, your family and your other friends. She's not worth the exhaustion.
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