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Hurting, lost my job, pawned everything, losing my cars and I want to die.


Question Posted Tuesday September 20 2011, 3:36 pm

I would like to know the best way to kill yourself.i have been out of work for 5 months I have lost my job,pawned every puece of jewelry I own,pawned my lap top,wrote check loans,title loans,about to loose both my vehicles by the end of the month im ready to die.

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girlinthepolkadotdress answered Friday September 23 2011, 1:46 am:
You should never give up, no matter how bad things get. There is nothing in the world that's worth giving up your life for. I don't know what your religious orientation is but the best advice I can give is to fully put your life in the hands of God and he will guide you. Get out there and apply anywhere and everywhere you can and even though things seems bad keep your head up. I believe in you.

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adviceman49 answered Wednesday September 21 2011, 10:16 am:
Dyeing solves nothing. You leave behind everyone that loves you and all your problems for them to solve.


The present economic times have caught up with all of us in one way or another. There are millions just like you that have lost possessions, As others have said possessions can be replaced, you can't be replaced.


Right now 5 months is not a long time to be out of work, others have been out of work much longer. It may take swallowing some pride but you need to ask for help from family and friends if needed.


The first type of help is to find someone to help you through the depression you find yourself in. Here again this is unfortunately a part of the economic times for those of us who have been hard working individuals, like yourself, suddenly find themselves unemployed.


You need to speak with a therapist to get out of the funk (depression) so when you interview for a job you are in a proper mood and stand out from the others. Please call this number 1-800-273-8255. They will talk with you then help you find someone in your home town who will help you out of the funk your in.


You also need to speak with a financial counselor, possibly a bankruptcy attorney. Here again the economic times has taken the stigma out of bankruptcy. By filing for bankruptcy you may be able to preserve some of your assets such as a car while discharging most or all of you debts.


There is help out there if you want it, you just have to ask. Dieing just leaves behind a lot of hurt for everyone who knows you and loves you.

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DangerNerd answered Tuesday September 20 2011, 4:38 pm:
I am sorry you are going through this right now. Please consider picking up the phone and calling this number:

1-800-273-8255

At a time like this, someone to talk to, but more importantly someone to talk to anonymously, can help more than a person might think.

The person who answered below brings up a very good point. You have listed all the monetary things in your life as the reason you might harm yourself, yet all of those things can, and will, eventually be replaced if you can find a way to hang in there.

If bankruptcy saves your life, then let the things fall by the wayside. As someone who has lost everything once or twice, I promise you that determination, and more importantly valuing yourself for your character, and not what you own, will make all the difference.

Does it feel like you are all alone in this, and nobody could possibly understand how dark your life is right now? That happens to a lot of people. :-( The worst part is that each person believes they are the only one who could understand, so they don't reach out to others.

Please call the number that was placed here for you. There really are other people who have been there, and can help.

Please don't hurt yourself. You are more valuable than anything you will ever own.

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LiSaxOBaBii answered Tuesday September 20 2011, 4:28 pm:
The things you lost can be replaced. You are not your possessions. Now is the perfect opportunity to see who you are beneath the stuff you own.

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