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Stolen Crush
My BFF and I went to a party on Friday night and expected to have a great time. We'll call her Reilly and me Carol. Reilly knows that like this guy ( we'll call him Steven). So she went ahead and asked him out. HE SAID YES TO HER!!! I thought that she could have told me about what she was going to do but she said that I would have hurt her. I would never have done that over a guy but she didnt believe me. She avoided me the rest of the night except when 2 guys got mad and it was leaning toward a fight so she comes up to us like:
"I need my B****** cuz there's about to be a fight."
It really ticked me off and I need to know what to do about the guy and my BFF.
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Well she stabbed you in the back. Since she was aware of your feelings for this guy she should have at least went and talked to you instead of trying to go behind your back.
It's your choice of how you want to deal with it but don't over react and try to fight with her or something. I doubt you would, but who knows.
I value friendship over boys so you can try to put this behind you or give it a little time.
I'd say just let them be and find another guy that can make you happy.
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If Reilly knew you liked the guy then she should of respected your feelings, Friends don't back stab each other. Sounds to me that Reilly wasn't as good of a friend as you thought she was. Trust, Is something that is earned and once it's broken it takes forever to repair it. If you feel you can never trust her again then the friendship would be over.
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That was very cold and inconsiderate of Reilly. Since she was aware of how you feel, you will probably never be able to trust her again. If the guy did not know your feelings, he did not do anything wrong. All I can say is Karma is very real. You don't have to do anything. You don't need friends like that, so go on with your life as if nothing ever happened..except try to ignore your former friend as much as possible. The situation will iron it's self out, he won't care for her much or she will cheat on him. It's not going to work and then you will have your chance, and by the time you get that chance you might not want him either.
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