Im 15/F i never understand when people say he didn't finish in me or he used the pull out method. what does that mean!? like im guessing it when you guys fu*k and then he stops but i don't get it?
Additional info, added Tuesday September 6 2011, 9:45 pm: IM ASKING WHAT THE PULL OUT METHOD IS! I'M NOT ASKING IF IT WORKS AND IF IM GOING TO GET PREGNANT. im not having sex no need to point that out. i just want to know what is was. Thanks for everyone advice though :). Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: What does it mean?? roseyapple answered Tuesday October 11 2011, 7:43 am: The term is withdrawal method. It is known as a more artificial type of contraception but it is not 100% affective.
It involves having sex without any form of contraception (condom, pill and so on, known as artificial types of contraception) but the man has to pull out before he ejcaulates inside the woman.
It involves a large amount of self control on his part.
soadorable__x3 answered Monday October 10 2011, 12:03 am: At first I thought that you were asking for advice about the pull out method and whether or not you should use it, thank you for the comment that you put in your additional info. I use the pull out method but I don't suggest that anyone much younger than me use it or people who are relationships with sexually inexperienced men.
The pull out method is considered as another contraceptive, like birth control pills or condoms, etc. It's when you have sex without a condom and pull out before the guy cums. Other than that, nothing else more to it. [ soadorable__x3's advice column | Ask soadorable__x3 A Question ]
Xui answered Tuesday September 6 2011, 7:12 pm: It means before he ejaculated he pulled out and finished outside of you.
I'm just going to point something out considering you didn't understand the whole pull out method. This does NOT always prevent pregnancy, The pull out method is not even a 50/50 thing. What it is, A risk you take. If you don't want to fall pregnant then use a condom that simple. This method fails all the time due to people "thinking" they are safe. This is in fact probably the worst way to try and prevent pregnancy and most certainly isn't the smart way. If you feel embarrassed about buying condoms then when you are at Walmart you can use the self check out isle. Condoms are only about 10 bucks, If you can't afford that then you are most definitely not ready for a baby. Don't be stupid!! [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
masterclinic answered Tuesday September 6 2011, 5:57 pm: It means that before hes going to cum he'll pull out so he doesn't get any inside. At your age i heard about it all the time and even then i knew it was one of the stupidest things ive ever heard. Im 19 years old and i definitely know more about this stuff then anyone your age so DONT USE THIS METHOD. If you look it up the most trustworthy site that somewhat recommend it is planned parenthood and when i saw that i was shocked. There are so many other more safe methods to use; for example:
condoms
ocp's or birth control pills
the diaphragm
spermicidal products such as vaginal contraceptive film also know as vcf
The types you can pick up from walmart or heb would be:
condoms
spermicidal products (i recommend vcf for pleasure, and only should use this if your in a trusting relationship)
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