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Is it over? Why doesn't he call?
I'm 13/f,and my boyfriend Derek 16/m and I have been dating for a week and four days.We talk alot,but don't get a chance to see each other,because of our busy schedules.We used to talk everyday,but it's been a week,since the last time we talked.We have time to talk,but we don't.Well,I'll talk to him,and he'll say hi,and he missed me,and I won't hear from him again,unless I talk to him again.I'm really confused.Does he still love me? Should we keep our relationship,or call it quits?Help!!!!!
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Sometimes age can be a factor in a relationship. It can sometime hurt more than help. And sometimes our lives go in different paths as well. You have to ask your questions:
Does he make me happy?
Is he what I want in a boyfriend?
Do I see a future with him?
If you answered yes to these questions then I would say stick it out. Maybe talk to him and ask him seriously where he feel like this is going. If you answered no to all these questions I would just move on. If you're waiting around for a response from him all the time than you should think do you want to continue in a relationship like that. It's up to you to decide in the end.
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I agree with Witty...
To label something a relationship it would need to be more than a week and a half, It sounds like this boy may of had a fling with you. If someone doesn't contact you, They likely lost interest. Someone cannot love someone in the course of a week and a half it takes months for someone to develop strong feelings for someone. I have been with my partner for a few years and I didn't even say "I love you" until at least the 6th month into our relationship. Forget him and move on he obviously left you hanging on the band wagon.......
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I hate to be harsh, and I don't want to offend you, but no. He doesn't love you. Both of you are far too young to know anything about the dynamics of love and a sexual relationship. He may 'like' you, and enjoy hanging around you, but he doesn't love you.
Quite frankly, I don't think you're old enough to be dating at all, especially a 16 year old boy. If I were you, I'd wait a few years before I started getting 'serious' with a guy.
Also: If he isn't making contact with you, he likely isn't all that invested in the 'relationship'. Move on.
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A week and four days isn't a relationship.
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