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i dont know if i like him
There's this guy I met about a month ago at summer band camp. We started hanging out and he constantly flirts with me. I thought he might like me, but I found out that he acts like that with every other girl he knows. He got my number from somebody and started texting me. Earlier, he asked me if I like him. I don't know what to do. I kinda do like him, but sometimes I don't feel like he is serious enough for me to consider anything. I'm also afraid to answer because its questions like that have ruined previous friendships of mine with other guys. Plus, I don't even know if he does like me or just asked because he thinks that I like him. What should I do?
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Actually I think you do know. In a sense your gut and your heart are having a tug of war. Your gut is telling you that you do not need to get romantically involved with someone who is a player, your words, while you heart is telling you to go ahead. Your common senses is also telling you that this is not someone you want to know any better than a summer friendship.
You know what the right thing to so is, you just need someone to agree with you. TO help you turn the tied against the stronger force within you telling you to override your better senses.
When all else fails, common sense and other instincts, trust your gut instincts as the gut instincts are almost never wrong. Keep this guy as a summer friend if you want too, but also keep him at arms length. Someone who is a player is only going to hurt you in the end.
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If you "don't know" if you like him, then you don't like him.
Just tell him you don't know him well enough to have gathered feelings like that for him, and maybe you both could get to know each other better.
If he behaves this way with every girl, he might either be A) a player, or B) just really friendly.
If you're interested, get to know him!
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If the guy is a player then pass him up and try and meet someone eles. Players are always the ones that dont want a serious relationship and you would hate to find out if you ever did date him he would of had a backup. Forget about him
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