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I know about incest that happened... should I tell their mother?
my friend who is 18 has sex with her 20 year old brother .She told me she instigated it .should i tell her mum
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frist i hear where your coming from but it is not your place to tell you can help your friend into letting her mother know but you do not tell the mother frist ok and this story makes me sick blood on blood action thats disgusting
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First of all That's disgusting. Second of all yes you should. Tell Their Mother!!
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Absolutely!
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Two consenting adults had sex. Yes they are related and that makes it incest. Telling there mother will do nothing except make you feel better; maybe. Fact is you do not know the whole picture of your friends family dynamic. There is a large sub-culture within western society that believes in incestuous relations. This could be truly a case of what you don't know won't hurt you.
My advice forget she ever told you this. Do not bring it up in conversation with her. If she brings it up again you can voice your concerns over how wrong you feel it is and leave it at that.
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They are both adults, leave it alone. The last thing you want to do is get involved in that kind of family drama. It's really none of your business, if I were you I'd just wish she hadn't told me, then try to forget she ever told me. Ask her not to bring it up again and avoid hanging out with just the two of them in case they feel more comfortable being affectionate because you're "in on the secret".
If you can't not get involved then end the friendship and stop talking to her. Tell her point blank "I can't not think about that when I see you, I wish you'd never told me, and I just can't handle being 'in' on that kind of secret. Good luck with life" or something similar.
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No I do not advise you to do that .She entrusted you as a friend in confidentuality .If anything talk to her about it but no one else .If you value your friendship don"t betray it .They are both adults so it is not like they are hurting anyone although it is not right and morally wrong ,Best to just talk to her when the times arise but not to get involved
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