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same cycle with friend. after senior year of high school, my friendship with my best friend really fell apart. i got annoyed with her easily, with things she did, & she wouldn't apologize for it either. even though she knew i was upset. she was always kind of like that though, very selfish.
anyway, i got really mad at her this last time, and i told her we shouldn't hang out. well 4 days later, she did the same thing, didn't text me, and then posted on my facebook with a joke. she always does this.
should i forgive her AGAIN or just stop talking to her? she will be gone in a month for college..
btw, can't talk to her, she just won't respond, and then just a few days later talk like nothing happened
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The EXACT SAME THING happened to me. I ended it and now I feel free. I recommend it if it's as bad if it sounds. Don't do anything crazy though :) hope this helps ]
I would confront her and tell her that you don't like being in arguments with her, and it's immature that you two ignore each other instead of resolving the problem. Tell her if she wants to keep the friendship, that she is going to have to put in some effort and communicate.
Once she goes off to college, it won't be so difficult since you will only be talking every once in a while to stay in touch, and not being annoyed with each other every day.
Good luck,
-Abby ]
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