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Do you think he actualy meant this or you just think he was teasing?


Question Posted Wednesday August 24 2011, 7:34 pm

Ok so the othernight at a baseball game I got to hang out with these guys I always have dreamed about hangin out with and well I actually got to the other night(: the boy jami he is one year older than me, me 15 him 16 almost 17 but like this boy came up to and started talkin and he goes "Why are you hanging out with her noone does" But he didnt sound serious and I do hang out with a lot of people. Then before I left I hugged my friends Nicole and Layla bye and he goes "Girl don't even expect to get a hug from me". Well I over react about everything so I was just wonderin do you think he really meant that or do you think he was just teasin like boys do kinda like boys will be boys? Cuz he is like a goofy person anyway so what do you think serious? or goffin around? Please help thanks(: -Madi

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gr8fruit answered Thursday August 25 2011, 10:52 am:
Hi,
To me it sounds as if his friend was teasing his buddy about liking you. If this other guy had a smirk or grin on his face while saying it, that also is a sign he was only kidding (besides not sounding serious). Plus, when the guy said "girls don't even expect a hug from me" he was likely teasing and implying he wanted a hug. If I were you, when he says that again walk up to him and hug him Or hold out your arms. I am sure he would love a hug from you :)


Somtimes it is hard to read guys, but when you know how he usually acts and if you watch the expressions when they are talking it becomes much easier.

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annabanana answered Thursday August 25 2011, 9:56 am:
Well, its cool that you finally were able to hang out with the guys you have dreamed about hangin out with... Didnt quite turn out like your dream, huh?!
ok, take it easy, let you in in a secret, guys just like attention just like we do, he is just teasing, and i bet he wanted a hug as well! my advice is keep on being sweet, and hang out with your true friends so you will be treated the way you deserve and just enjoy the friendships of your good friends.
Its alright to over react about everything, you are entitled to your own emotions, just keep cool and think very well before you say anything so no one gets hurt. remember you deserve to be treated like a princess! Good luck!

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