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Am I doing the right thing for me?
My boyfriend of six months broke up with me, and of course I was upset about it. I'm still upset, but now I'm more angry because he told me he just woke up a few days before school started and decided he didn't love me.
We have a lot of mutual friends and they think I'm wrong for avoiding him right now. I think it's the best choice for me at the moment and maybe in a few more weeks I can stand to look at him without a disgusted look on my face (Seriously, I feel sorry for the next girl who dates him. This is the second time he's dumped a girl for no reason.).
Am I doing the right thing for me, or are my friends right by saying that I need to just throw myself back into the group of mutual friends that he's always with?
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You know what's right for you. If you feel it is too hard for you right now, then that's fine. But just be careful not to let your bitterness toward your ex destroy your other good friendships. Of course you are hurt, but your friends are your friends. They don't want to have to choose between you two, so don't make them. Start out with a few little hangouts here and there. You may find that its not so bad hanging in the same circles as him as you thought it would be.
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Honestly 6 months is such a short time that you can't truly love someone in that time. Maybe he just isn't a relationship type or has serious commitment issues.
In anycase anger is one of the steps to getting over someone. just like sadness depression,. regret.
I honestly would throw yourself back in with your friends. Because yes they may be his friends too. But this would prove that your strong! and that you don't deal with bullshit like that.
Your better than a hidding under a rock kind of person.
And plus your friends will be there to support you anyway.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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