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How do I tell him this?
I'm 13/f,and have a crush on my friend who's 17/m.He went out with my bestfriend Chloe,and when he broke up with her,she was devistated.She became sick all the time,and depressed.She didn't get over him,until she found another boyfriend last week.
I really like my bestfriend,but I don't know if I should ask him out,after that happened between him and Chloe.Chloe was asleep for a total of 3 weeks.And I don't wanna ruin me and Chloe's friendship.And then,I also don't know if he'd go out with me,because when I told him I date older guys,he said that could be dangerous.And I even drop hints.I tell him he's cute,and he laughs and says thanks.Shouldn't that let him know something?Should I ask him out,or shouldn't I?
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It kinda depends on what you value more. Your friendship with your best friend or the relationship with your other friend?
She might be over him but it'd still probably bug her if you guys started dating.
If you still want to go through with it, then talk to her about it and let her know that you do like her ex.
If you don't know if he likes you or not, you should talk to him too and see how that goes first before you figure out if you're gonna date him or not.
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Your friend has obviously had a really hard time with him,. And you being her bestfriend dating him is NOT a good idea! She maybe over him but it will still hurt her to see him and you together. Plus she might accuze you of trying to steal him.. Even though that may not be the case....
Best Friends ex's are clearly offf limits!
Where as this guy.. Is he actually showing interest in you?? Doesn't really seem like it to me.. He probably just says thanks cuz you contemplated that... and he says it's dangerous because 13 and 17 it a HUGE!!! Difference. you two are on different age groups.
You maybe crushing on him but you should try to find someone more you age and someone who is absolutely not offlimits like he is.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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Even though your friend seems like she's over her ex, it's still probably not a good idea to try to date him. It sounds like your friend didn't take the break-up very well, and just because she has a new boyfriend doesn't mean she's completely over her ex. If you do ask this boy out, you run a huge risk of losing your best friend. If I were you, I wouldn't do it. Put yourself in her shoes and imagine how you would feel if she did the same thing to you.
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