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SRH2323 UPDATE
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There are my questions from the last two years of my life. The bunch of you have been giving my the same advice repeatedly. I would rate 5s and try to listen, but could not. I just want to let you know, that was "the dumb girl" I have found a new me completley. I kicked my ex out on June 7th. He is in jail now for robbery and I could not be happier. He wants my sympathy, he went through rehab and claims he is a brand new person and all better. Guess what? I don't give a damn. He could have turned into the pope and I will NEVER let him back into my life. Even after I kicked him out, he free loaded off a buddy. Blew up my phone all of the time. We got together ONE night, i started falling back into it....and the next day he blew me off when it came to watching the baby so I could work. At that point, I said FUCK IT. DONE. Stuck to it. 5 Days later, he robs someone, then checks himself into rehab. I found a good friend again, the day after I kicked him out. As he is in rehab (read the questions about my euphoric dream) things between pete and I take a turn at a party one night. He begins to kiss me and tell me how bad he has been wanting to do that for 5 years. Its pretty surreal. I wasnt expecting anything to happen between the two of us, we were just really good friends, and then that happened and there was so much passion I could not believe it. I asked if he was going to take me on a date and he said "hell yes!" its been 3 weeks, we have been on two dates and hang out all of the time (not around my daughter yet) he hasnt tried to go any further than making out, he said he doesnt want to rush anything so we are just taking it sloooooow and its going great! i know you may say that this was the wrong thing to do, but I wouldnt be rolling with it unless it felt right. I dont plan on introducing my daughter and him until its been official for atleast 6 months. I have my head in the game. My world is not wrapped around this guy at all. I am starting school full time september 6th, getting my associates in general studies and then transferring to university to get my bachelors in psychology, eventually my masters and ultimately my doctorate. I want to help young mothers like myself, I have never felt like things are going in the right direction until now. I know I am doing what I have to do to fix my mistakes and create an amazing life for my beautiful daughter. Babydad is freaking out about my new guy, he says that my daughter deserves a shot at this with him being sober. I am not the least bit attracted to him anymore and have no respect so it is never going to work I just dont know how else to make him see it. I am talking to an attorney tomorrow about what my next move is regaurding parental rights. I just wanted to tell you guys that I read through all of my questions today and see exactly what you were all screaming at me. I am a new Sarah now, and I love being just me. So thank you SO much advicenators, I owe my new found life to you. Sadly, I wont be posting on here much more, I have turned to reddit.com Add me, xRAHx.
Love you all,
this site is amazing.
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There is a reason you received the same basic advice from most of us; we are here to help and advise. I looked at reddit.com and did not see the same genuine interest in wanting to help those seeking advice.
That being said I am glad to see that the advice you received has forced you to turn you life around. That your interests now are focused on your child and not on your own pleasure or you husbands well being. When you see the Attorney talk to him about a protective order for you and your daughter. As an ex-con who committed a violent crime you may be able to have one placed on him. That should limit his rights to see his daughter as well.
There is an old saying about planning. There are those who fail to plan and there are those who plan to fail. You have a wonder plan laid out for yourself. Don't allow it to be a plan that fails.
Sorry to see you go, though we will all be her should you ever need to ask us a question in the future.
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Go check out /r/seduction or "seddit" and then rethink spending time with that community.
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