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Friend or ex
Ok, so this is kind of a long story. My ex boyfriend and I broke up in may and we were together for a year and 7 months. Im now 19 and im so confused because he has come back and been sucha sweetheart but keeps trying to get back with me. We broke up because he started treating me horrible and had a drug problem with pills..hes been clean now and if he does relapse it will make my life easier because id be gone very fast. I really really care about this boy but I know that hes screwed me over a lot so its hard to gain trust back in him and to make it worse...my good friend told me today that hed never talk to me again if I ever got back with him because I could do better and blahblahblah. But the thing is I was kinda hoping that I could just wait and see wht happens in the future and maybe in a year me and him could work it out. And to make matters even worse, a kid I used to like when I was 14 has started talking to me everyday and is making it very obvious he doesnt jus wanna be friends. I like that kid but I still feel strongly towards my ex. Plus me abd my ex have been hooking up and its really confusing. I dont know what to do between the two boys and my friend and family hating my ex. I really really dont want to hurt anyone and was hoping this situation could be easier. I really love my ex but if I go with that and he screws me over noones gonna be there.to.help me get out of my depression.
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There are all kinds of sirens going off here:
1. You want to fix this guy, which is why you are thinking about being with him again. This is called codependency and isn't healthy.
2. You like a guy who treated you like crap.
3. You are thinking about foregoing other and more healthy relationships for this loser.
Now look at that. What does that say about you? You need to bigtime check yourself or forever wallow in misery (of course, that will allow you to play the victim when you gripe about him to your girlfriends, which will get you lots of attention). The ball is in your court. Hopefully you won't allow him to take another shot.
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