I want a guy I don't even know... I think he has a girlfriend. How do I make this happen?
Question Posted Sunday August 7 2011, 5:31 pm
Welp, I just moved to Columbus and there is a guy named spencer that i like. I think he has a girlfriend but not sure. I dont know him. Like at all. But i want to meet him and date.. What should i do. He is in 7th and i am in 8th.
How about you just kinda hang loose, scope things out and, if he becomes available then you can make a move. Until then, butt out. There are plenty of other guys who would be good for you who want to be with you. [ VoiceofReason's advice column | Ask VoiceofReason A Question ]
Xui answered Sunday August 7 2011, 7:20 pm: If you don't know if he is in a relationship or not then you should probably hold off until you know for sure. It would be wrong to try and come between someone's relationship and you don't want to be the girl he points fingers at because if you do try to come between a relationship he'll end up resenting you for it. If you want to talk to him then fine but try to respect his relationship if he's in one. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
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