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Did he really reject me?
Did he really reject me?
Basically I told a guy I liked I really liked him. He said it's fine, I'm OK with that, he told me he really liked me too and that I was a great person, an amazing person but he just got out of a two year relationship and he's fed up with all of that. I mean I told him I got out of a 6 year relationship and that I know how it felt losing someone. I told him that I'm not expecting him to like me back but he cut me off saying "no, it's not that I don't like you, I really really do like you a lot, but I don't want to be tied down in another relationship".
I know how it feels to break up with someone but I've heard this all before whenI ask out a guy, he'd reject me and say he's just broken up from a relationship. The thing is, at the pub today, he kept wanting to sit next to me when my friend sat on his chair and that he asked me constantly whether I'm going to the pub with the others. He leaned closer to me but not to a point where he nearly hugged me, it made my friend say "you make a cute couple". He has a lot of girls liking him and that he likes that attention.
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I wouldn't say that he has rejected you. He just doesn't want to be in a relationship right now. He still needs some more time to heal his broken heart. As for his sitting next to you at the pub, he might just want to reassure you that he is attracted to you. He wants to make sure you know how he feels about you so you wouldn't feel rejected.
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i don't think he rejected YOU.. but I think he rejected the idea of having another girlfriend. Make sense?
In other words, he obviously likes you because you said he kept wanting to sit next to you and kept leaning in towards you. So he's definitely interested.
But he's not interested in having a girlfriend.
If i were you, just keep it cool. Be friends with him. don't start anything serious. Keep in contact and if he likes you bad enough, he will want to start something eventually. dont force him or force yourself. If its meant to be, then it will happen.
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This guy isn't ready for a relationship, He told you that. You may know how it feels to loose someone but reality is sometimes when relationships end it takes time to get over it. The worst thing someone can do is date immediately after you ended a relationship.
Likely he is just staying a single guy for awhile because that's how he wants it. You didn't get rejected he just in other words told you to lay low for awhile. Be cool about it and don't rush anything, If he likes you then he'll come around when he's ready.
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