|
boyfriend touching me down there
18/f
My boyfriend and I have been dating for over two years. We did not start having sex until the two year mark and we were eachother`s firsts.
Although we delayed sex for a long while, we were active in foreplay. I really enjoyed this and there was never really a problem. However, lately whenever he tries to touch me, regardless of how long and where I feel extremely sensitive down there; to the point it feels sore and I make him stop. This is not a problem at all during sex, only foreplay now.
Its starting to really discourage my boyfriend since ive gone from loving that stuff to avoiding or asking him to stop very early on. I dont know why this is happening, or what I can do to prevent it. Any ideas? Its starting to REALLY frustrate us both.
Thanks
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Health & Fitness category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Illnesses?
Is it possible that his hands are rougher than they used to be? The skin down there is paper-thin and more sensitive than basically anywhere else. Check his fingernails and trim them, and see if his skin is dry/sandpaper-like. A hand scrub and some (not girly scented) moisturizer could do wonders for both of you. I usually soak my hands in warm water (or take a shower) and then use a mixture of plain old sugar and olive or canola oil (as a scrub), followed by moisturizer. It makes cuticles softer, too!
I know not too many guys who would be keen on the idea of getting a "manicure", so maybe promise NOT to tell his friends about it! Since he's probably already seen your reaction, he shouldn't mind trying something to make it better for you. Throwing in a hand massage would make it nice for him (men supposedly hold a lot of tension in their arms and hands, and massage alleviates stress)
- [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
If the problem continues, seeing a doctor or a clinic might be a good idea; however, if foreplay is the ONLY time you're experiencing discomfort it's most likely nothing to worry about. No one on here can be 100% sure, though.
-LM
[19/f]
]
well he can't get mad at you for something like this... that is really immature. What the heck are you supposed to do? bear the pain? Obviously something isn't right with your vagina if its hurting this badly. How would he feel if his penis started hurting and you suddenly got pissed off at him because of it.. its not very fair of him to be mad because your body is physically hurting.
hon, I cant tell you whats wrong with your vag. Nobody on this website can. The best answer I can give you is just go to the doctor and see if something's wrong. It could be an infection or something. Is it red and itchy or anything??
Try taking a break from foreplay and sex for a few days and see if it gets better. maybe its just overused??
best bet- go to the doctor!
]
More Questions: |