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Desire to hurt my kitten and my family members


Question Posted Saturday July 16 2011, 6:05 pm

I love animals -- and I've always loved animals. Now, I have a kitten and he's absolutely sweet, and adorable though he likes to bite and scratch me sometimes.

Regardless, I honestly just feel like hurting him but I don't know why! All sorts of things come into my mind on how I can hit him, or kill him.

And I've already a couple of times, roughly thrown him or shoved him off of me when he was jumping on my hand/fingers to bite.

I mean I also get these thoughts about my family members from time to time as well like my brother. I love him, but even sometimes I want to kill him and I get really odd thoughts like wanting to stab him while he's asleep, or this one time when I was renovating my closet.. I felt like bashing his head with a hammer while he was alseep.

I don't know what's wrong with me (besides being crazy)!


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YoungMommy answered Sunday July 17 2011, 6:07 pm:
This is not a normal behavior. Wanting to hurt someone by hitting them is normal but youre not supposed to act on it but having thoughts about killing someone and actually thinking about how you would do it is not normal. I advise you go to the hospital and tell them what is going on... Dont be afraid they will help you good luck

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iluvmusic15 answered Sunday July 17 2011, 7:41 am:
first of all, i know how you feel. sometime i feel like hurting people or my dogs but thats not the answer. if you really do feel this way, then try to find a way to let your anger out and dont think about it a lot. hope i helped

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QueenofBlues answered Sunday July 17 2011, 1:19 am:
Aren't we all crazy though. I think you should just lay down and evaluate yourself...any reason why you could have pent up anger or want to hurt something? I know that sounds stupid but it's the truth. I don't think you're crazy. This happens to my best friend too...he's the funniest and most awesome dude you'll ever meet but he always tells me how he fantasizes about the way he would kill people when he doesn't like them or if he's mad at them.

Basically, having the thoughts isn't the problem, it's doing it that's the problem. Everyone is crazy, everyone thinks they're crazy in some way....but as long as you can keep yourself controlled then it's ok. DON'T throw or shove your cat..if you really can't control it then you have no business owning a cat I'm sorry to tell you. And for the love of god please don't stab/hammer your brother.

Hopefully if you just chill and think about what makes you like the thoughts of hurting something...whether its some kind of pent up anger, etc....you can figure out for yourself how to stop having those thoughts.

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hnstymtrs answered Saturday July 16 2011, 8:55 pm:
Dear "Desire to hurt my kitten and my family members",

Intrusive thoughts plague us all.

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Why do we get intrusive thoughts?

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Food for thought!

Good Luck!

Doktor Tammy

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Xui answered Saturday July 16 2011, 8:12 pm:
DO NOT hurt or kill your kitten, This animal is innocent and did nothing wrong.


Frankly, I'm going to just be upfront

You need to seek some sort of help, Your behavior is NOT normal. What you are doing is abuse and if you get caught you can be charged with a shit load of crap. Which right now I am going to honestly say I feel you deserve some sort of punishment.

You don't deserve to own an animal nor do you deserve to own any for this matter. If you are having thoughts of killing or hurting a person or an animal then use whatever sense you have and call 911 IMMEDIATELY and get yourself evaluated. PLEASE!

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