He cheated on me and I don't know if I should forgive him or move on?
Question Posted Sunday July 10 2011, 3:53 pm
my boyfriend for 2 years just cheated on me. a part of me wants to forgive him because i love him so much, but the other part just wants to give up, although it seems to easy to give up. ive tried moving on and it just doesnt feel right.i cant stand him with this other girl. its slowly breaking me, he told me he will always love me but that is only making it worse, but at the same time, im happy to hear him say he loves me.. Should i forgive the man i love for sleeping with another girl?
YoungMommy answered Monday July 11 2011, 6:25 am: No, Once a cheater always a cheater if you forgive him he will think its okay to do it again you deserve better and there is better out there its time to move on good luck and best wishes [ YoungMommy's advice column | Ask YoungMommy A Question ]
Xui answered Sunday July 10 2011, 10:23 pm: Hell no
Forgiving someone who cheats is like saying it is okay to betray you. Your "boyfriend" lied, If someone loves someone they don't cheat no matter what the situation was. This guy saying he loves you is just bullshit.
It's a game, "I love you" is your weak point right? Sometimes guys just tell a women what they want to hear and sometimes those words aren't always the truth. Your "boyfriend" is guilty and he knows it and these words are his way of trying to win you back. Don't fall for it, Don't buy his excuses and certainly do not fall for his "Sorry's" The fact is, You don't cheat on someone you love. There is no what, if's or buts about it.
Move on, Find someone who will respect you and love you for who you are. Not someone who will leave you on the back of the band wagon while he is out fetching for his bone. I'm not trying to be an ass but this guy had no problem moving on and toying with your feelings why the hell do you care about his? Screw him and the truth IS once a cheater, Always a cheater. Be the stronger one and realize what is the right thing to do. If you forgive him how would you ever trust him again? and most of all you just told him it is okay. No way curb stomp the jerk. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
KlutzyKim answered Sunday July 10 2011, 8:35 pm: I agree, no.
I firmly believe in the line, "Once a cheater, always a cheater" due to previous experiences.
How can he love you if he's sleeping around with other woman behind your back?
That is most definitely NOT love.
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