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he wants me back, but is he being genuine?
me and my boyfriend of a year and a half recently broke up. He told me he lost feelings and we just got boring, and also feels like since he has only experienced 3 girls (hes 20) and went right from his last relationship of 2 years (got cheated on many times) to me and him he feels like he needs to see and experience what else is out there. We broke up over a month ago. The last time we talked face to face was a little over 2 weeks ago. He saw me out the other night with another guy and it hit him hard. He is begging, and i mean begging for me back, spilling his complete heart out (hes not a guy to show emotions at all). He swears he will be there and do everything and he has acknowldged on his own everything he needs to fix without me saying anything
Now im smart, i know guys can be selfish and say whatever they can to get you back and its sad that a guy has to see me out with someone else to realize what i mean.
But i also do know that although its rare some guys can be very sincere and truely realize what they've done. My question is, is there any way to tell? Any advice for how to get back into the relationship and make it perfect without rushing it, and anything else that could help me?
i've been ignoring his calls and texts, and i just dont know how i should handle this cause i do not want to get hurt again
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Guys...Girls......they are both human and sometimes they make mistakes.
I am not going to tell you what you want to hear so if you can't handle it then leave.
I bet that you are a beautiful women who deserves the right man but the question is....Is he even right for you????
jEALOUSY my friend is never good and his jealousy led him to ask for you to come back.
It is sincere but not in the right situation. For HIM to come back.....her had to BE JEALOUS.
If you get back with him....it might end good but what happens when he gets bored???? Your guy wants excitement in his relationships like jealousy........and such and it might hurt you badly which is why I tell you to be cautious.
To tell if a guy is sincere is impossible!!!! You are not a mind reader!!!!! You just have to be able to trust that person and know them well. If you can't tell if this guy is being sincere or not......then you shouldn't think about it.
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Women are from Venus.....Men are from Mars???/
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Yes there is a way to tell if a guy is truly sincere and have realized what they have done and that is if they keep coming back to you telling how sorry they are and what they would do, why they want to be with you stuff like that. So my advice to you is play hard to get. Make sure that he knows who he gave up. Keep ignoring his text messages and calls. Don’t let him off that easy. Go about your daily life, go out with some other guys, make him feel jealous that he gave up someone amazing, make him think about all the times he had with you and if you should run into him well I would talk to him like nothing ever happened, that your life has moved on and you are doing good right now. Trust your instincts. If your heart tells you to go for it give him another chance well then that’s what should do. If the guy keeps coming back to you after this then he’s the one who really cares for you and loves you.I know it is sad how guys have to see you out with someone else to know who they have lost but sometimes that's how it goes. You shouldn't stop doing that though keep going out with guys if he loves and cares for yo uhe will keep coming back. You will know when to take him back if do in time. Remember this though no realationship if ever perfect. Every realationshio has flaws and faults, the key to a good realtionship is to accept yourself for who you are and for who the other person is and accept their faults. No one is perfect.
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