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Best Friend/Love of My Life
(I know the subject is very melodramatic)
I'm 15 and last year my head teachers son an I got really close from when we went to Thailand. He is a year younger than me and from after that point we were inseparable. I started to have feelings for him so he told me he was going on a date and I got jealous and said something mean about the girl. I apologised immediately but then after that he kept on ignoring my texts and didn't want to meet up with me any more. Eventually, he told me to leave him alone but I didn't really think it would be permanent as I had other things on my mind. When I realised I missed him I tried to contact him over and over again but he just shut me down until he finally told me that he wanted nothing to do with me and many other hurtful words. Ever since then I cry every day feel depressed and I even think I'm developing an eating disorder but I know the only thing that can make it right is him. I have been like this for like 6 months now and I just have to contact him. But I don't know how? If I call he will probably hang up, if I text he won't reply, if I go to wear he hangs out he might just embarrass me in front of his mates.And the worst part is I don't even know if he has changed his mind HELP! (please do not tell me to move on!) I just want to be his friend.
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First thing you did wrong was say something mean about the girl, though you apologised immediately. It maybe that it hurt his feeling, because you were his friends.
Friends support each others decision, though you might not like them, you advise your friend not make the decision for them. You be true to them. You be loyal, honest, and trustworthy.
Some people need time to get over the hurt and pain other people have caused them. Maybe he felt that you would against every decision he took.
The only thing you could do is try and make him see that you made a mistake and you only wanted the best for him. Just try that, don't give up on him yet
Hope that I helped
Best of luck to you!
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