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He is white I am black and I need advice
i like this guy we flirted then kiss then when go to the sex part it was weird,after that day onward he didn't even try to touch me even if we spend so many days in bed,he always call me,chat with me introduce me to kiss friends but no more romantic moves,when i make moves he just give me reasons not to do them, i like him what should i do,but 1 thing he is white and i am black.
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Why is the race difference relevant? The fact that he has stopped making moves is nothing to do with the fact that you are white and he is black.
Sounds to me like he got what he wanted and he's lost interest, something which guys of all races do.
Ask him what's up and where you stand. If he doesn't give you a clear answer or continues to act like this then forget about it and move on.
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Yea, I believe race should never be a problem. It doesn't matter if you are black and he is white, you are both human. I think the problem is communication. Have you tried talking to him about this? Ask him if something is on his mind.
If he gives you a reason not to make a move, tell him you want to though, because you care for him and if you want him to be more romantic, tell him. Sometimes men don't realize that they aren't doing those little things (touching you) anymore. Say you loved it when he used to _______ so he will want to do it again! Talk, continue flirting with him and make sure he is comfortable with the attention you are giving. By communicating together you can be sure that he likes how you are interacting and if needed, start from the beggining: with kisses <3
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What does it matter that you are white and he is black? Sounds like he's being a jerk, and that has nothing to do with his race. That's just a personality flaw.
My advice? Move on.
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