my boss n me was in a relation few days back.
but now we hv some problems in our relation,he is already married n having 3 kids.
i accepted him the way he is,but he can't able 2 accept the way i m.m a very fun loving n friendly nature girl n hv many guys as my friends.but not as my boyfriends....
n he has a bad habit to use others shoulders to fight n saving himself n showing his back to tht people who respect him the most. he has a friend who suggest him 2 behave rude with me n not to talk to me...his friend is also working with me n behaving rude with me.n thy r insulting me everyday.
now a days my boss is avoiding me,n nt answering my calls n sms. suggest me wht 2 do??
Inform your boss that if he doesn't give you a good reference, you'll expose his cheating ways and complain labor board that he contributed to a hostile and abusive work place by allowing others at work to know of the affair and abuse you because of it.
You didn't have a relationship with this man - you had an affair with a controlling ass. Be grateful that it is over. Move on with your life. Try to avoid these situations in the future altogether - they always cause drama and they make you look selfish and silly. It IS selfish and silly to think this was going to end any other way but like this: badly with hurt feelings and resentment and you looking for a new place to work. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
Xui answered Sunday June 12 2011, 5:56 pm: Your bosses behavior is highly inappropriate, He is a married man with 3 children and this man is also dating his coworker. Guess what, He is putting himself on a real thin line.
If I were you, I'd have a talk with your boss. Tell him you feel you made a mistake and that you would like to start fresh and keep things strictly to a coworker relationship.
Your boss is immature and you should not be supportive of someone who is having an affair especially when they are married with 3 children. Dating your boss is like playing with fire. Sit down with him and get it situated. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
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