I like this boy and I hear he likes me too and by the way we are 13 I'm a girl and we are friends and talk and stuff and I wanna kiss him sometime maybe and I'm nervous and people keep telling me "oh dont be, I'm sure he's just as nervous" Or "don't worry he hasnt his first kiss either, he doesn't no what to do" except he's told me people he's kissed and made out with so I'm afraid he's good and I won't be. I really like him and i wanna kiss him but Im too nervous. All advice helps! Thanks ! (:
Anyway, guys are really dumb about girls in reading their signals. You more or less have to make things really obvious so that an insecure teenage guy will feel comfortable in busting a move.
However, I concur with an earlier commenter, too: getting tied down at your age doesn't really make much sense. You are in the exploratory, learning phase of your life and therefore it is more important you get involved with as many different kinds of people as you can, whether that is dating them or just hanging out with them. Your sensibilities are still evolving and by the time you reach your mid-20's they are going to be radically different from what they are now. So relax, don't be in such a hurry to put an anchor around your neck and enjoy life! [ VoiceofReason's advice column | Ask VoiceofReason A Question ]
lightoftruth923 answered Tuesday June 7 2011, 5:44 pm: You don't have to worry about that. Trust me, you have plenty of time for your first kiss anyway. Don't rush it or else it won't be as great. Truth is, he probably is just as nervous. If you want him to be your first kiss then let it happen. Just don't try rushing it. [ lightoftruth923's advice column | Ask lightoftruth923 A Question ]
julmogigraphia answered Tuesday June 7 2011, 1:16 pm: The best advice I can give on this is: Boys are human too!!! :) He's only a boy. If you want him to be your kiss, go for it! Everyone is nervous when it comes to their first kiss. Don't worry so much about not being good enough. Kisses come naturally.
kayliegirl125 answered Tuesday June 7 2011, 1:58 am: First of all. You're only 13. I'm sure that if you give it some time, you'll be more than ready to get that kiss. Don't rush into it. It'll be so much better if you wait. Good luck! [ kayliegirl125's advice column | Ask kayliegirl125 A Question ]
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