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I'm bored... should I leave him?
So I've been with the same man for almost 2 years now, we've known each other for about 3. I do love him, but honestly, I'm getting bored. I've seriously thought about it and I've almost left him a few times. The thing that stops me is the fact that I could never get him back and my fear of being alone. So what should I do? I'm not sure if this is something I should talk to him about or maybe just something I need to decide on my own.
Any help appreciated!
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Each relationship is an experience, Some work out and others don't.
If you feel there is nothing left in the relationship then it is time to move on and find someone new. It is unfair to lead someone on in a relationship because you don't want to be alone. If you are no longer committed then you should be honest about it.
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Part of the growing process is being able to live as an independent person. And having to stay around people you have trouble tolerating for long is a hell all of its own. So you need to jettison the boyfriend and seek another mate because your growth as a human and the opportunity to widen your social circle is being stifled by remaining in the relationship.
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Ok if you really love him you wouldn't be thinking about leaving him. You are being selfish your staying with him just because you fear of being alone, depending on how old you are you honestly shouldn't worry about finding another man.
-Raven
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