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complicated relationship
so this is a complicated story, but try to understand, where im coming from. So im in middle school this popular girl, sarah has been dating this guy james for like some monthes maybe 5 the max.? but anyways he doesnt like her anymore, and they broke up like back in dec, and she is still emotionally attached, and acts like they are still together. and i am friends with this girl i sit at her table, and talk. he is just good friends with her. he has i think more classes with me. he is rly nice, at least to me. and she is so the melodramatic and jealous type, and that is so not me, that is also why they broke up at least not in a relationship. So we talk like evryday and in every class because we sit next to each other in every class...and we didnt pick our seats (weird right?) he is always poking me, we have a friendly handshake, etc. right now we are friends, but all im saying is that i could see us as a happy couple. and i could easily say i dont care about sarah, and im going to flirt with him. but i dont becuase i dont want to hurt her, and the last thing i want to do is start drama, i know your problly like "how is that starting drama?" but it is becuase shes gonna start crying and what not and i really dont want that to happen, if only she was with someone else it would be a lot easier, and if she didnt like him. i like him we see each other alot, and idk it want to be happy at the same time, but dont want to stir shit up. and i just came out of depression, so its really important for me to go after what i want. and if i were to flirt with him im sure he will like me back, its just her standing in the way. what do i do?? thankss
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Are you friends with this girl? Are you two acquaintances? If not then I'd say go for it.
If the relationship is over between Sarah and this guy then they are not dating and there is nothing you are doing wrong, If they WERE dating and you decided to hurt her then yes, You would be in the wrong.
5 months is plenty of time to give someone to stay single, If the two had just broken up a a week ago then I would say maybe give it a little more time but I fail to see why it would be a bad idea if you two dated. I say if you like him then go for it
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Well it depends on how close you are to this girl. If you're not really her friend, you don't have to worry about it too much until she starts freaking out. If she's your actual friend then you might want to watch yourself and let her know that you have feelings for her ex. Even if she did find someone else, there would probably be drama.
Just flirt with him and be happy. Don't let other people get in the way of that.
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well you said yourself that they are broken up if your friends with this girl which kinda sounds like it keeping in mind that you said you guys talk and sit at the same table everyday you should probally let her know if you and this guy want to date. she probally wont realize for a while that you two are talking so do what you want right now and if you guys are going to date then tell her. me and james want to date and i wanted to let you know because i know you guys dated in the past and i hope that we dont have a problem with eachother.
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