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my best friend and my boyfriend
Heey .. !
i'm 15 years old,
I've been dating someone for 8 months we love each other so much, our relationship is built on trust,
he tells me everything even when he talks to other girls our hangs out with them,
so I, he Met many of my friends but he didn't show interest in any until he met my best best friend who is popular beautiful, funny , super - amazing Everything actually !
they start talking, and then they became best friends, something strange happened
he started to care alot about her and she barley tell me that she talked to my boyfriend
i feel that they like each other, I've tried to show my boyfriend that this is up sting me and i feel jealous and he is mine .. but he was like okay but i only talk to her when i need to ask her something about you and if that annoys you i'll stop it but he didn't stop it actually he tries to find any way to talk to her then he come and tell me, today i talked to her and we were talking about that bla bla bla , but that's not true i read alot of conversations between them and they flirt with each other
i'm so worry about that and i know there's something behind all that, i don't know what to do and i need your advice please (:
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If your relationship is truly built on trust, there is no need to question what is going on between your boyfriend and your best friend.
The fact that you're scared something may be going on means that you really don't trust him as much as you think you do.
If it truly bothers you that they are close friends, you need to talk to both of them separately.
Sit him down and really try your hardest to convey the message so that he will understand you. Tell him that you're happy he has made a new friend, but that their relationship worries you. You feel like he is more into her than he is you, and that it hurts your feelings. Let him know everything you are feeling.
Sit her down and tell her that you don't appreciate that she flirts with your boyfriend. It's fine to be friendly, but you are supposed to be best friends, and that she should know not to overstep that boundary. You are fine with the fact that they are friends, but that's as far as it should go because he is YOUR boyfriend.
If you sit down with both of them, and the behavior between them continues after you've talked and let them know how you feel, I will say it's safe to assume that they don't care much about your feelings and that you should re-evaluate your relationships with both of them.
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