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feel like i screwed up
I have been talking to this one guy and he started not texting me back yesterday. I knew he was busy but he didn't text me at all today. He also got pissed yesterday and shut me out so I left him alone. But usually when I tell him good morning he always replies and he didn't text me all day. When I worry he always tells me to relax and I am insecure and paranoid and I really like him and don't wanna screw up. But I asked if he was ignoring me and he got all pissy. How was I supposed to know he was at a wedding dinner like he said he was? He could've at least let me know. He always lets me know when he's busy. I'm hurt. I feel like I screwed things up between us. Help?
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my best advice is to just relax.. if you want my honest opinion (and yes i am judging you) you sound like you're in a relationship with the guy...
He's probably thinking "who is this girl who keeps texting me so much?? why does she always want to know what i'm doing and is always asking me if i'm ignoring her??"
You really have got to just relax.. You're taking things waay too fast with this guy, and you're starting to get really serious with him.. He may not want to move this fast. When you text him every single day, asking him what he's doing and saying good morning and wondering why he wont text you and if he's ignoring you.. well that's something an overprotective girlfriend would do.. He's picturing you as a friend. But you're treating him like a boyfriend. He doesn't want that. He's getting all pissy at you because he doesn't want a girl always texting him everyday asking if he's ignoring you. Thats annoying. How would you like it, if one of your guy friends (just a friend to you, but to him he is like in love with you) was texting you every single day and bothering you so much? wouldn't you get irritated too? Thats how this guy is feeling.
Just realx, put the phone down. Don't text him for minimum of 3 days. If you guys are currently friends, then you should be texting him maximum of 3 times per week. No more than that. If you text him more than that per week.. its really clingy and comes off like a relationship kind of thing. Which is obviously not what he wants considering the way he is so annoyed that you talk to him all the time.
Cool off first, and then let him come to you. Don't be so clingy otherwise he will just completely ignore you and delete your number.
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It's only been a day so don't stress out about it. You don't always need to be texting him. Do other things to keep yourself busy because he's not gonna always be there to talk and guys don't like it when girls are always trying to talk to them so much.
If he's mad right now, just leave him alone for awhile. He'll text you when he's all calmed down again.
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You really need to calm down when he doesnt text you back. You both have your owns lives and you can't be glued to your phone 24/7. Having to check in witn someone constantly is like having another mother, and no guy wants that. Let him breathe, let him have some space. Dont always be the first one to text him good morning, and give him a while before you freak out because of no reply. You guys dont have to text EVERY DAY.
From what you wrote, i'm guessing yall dont see each other..? So thats probably why youre so paranoid and jealous. Try to explain it to him. But for now, let the situation cool down and dont text him unless he texts you.
Good luck.
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Guys do not like women who are constantly wanting to know what they are doing, Where they are, What they are up too etc. Guys need their space just like women do and he could be feeling overwhelmed and does not know the proper way to act upon it.
The best way to really know how he feels is to ask him about it because the only other assumption I can make is maybe he has a girlfriend?
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