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WHY? Why are all ugly guys attracted to me?
Why are all ugly guys attracted to me? I don't mean to sound like a bitch i swear i'm not I'm actually really nice, actually to the point where just because i talk to the guy he thinks we're "dating" or have a "thing"...like I don't even flirt I'm just friendly. They usually hate me after awhile because they think i led them on. But i swear i'm not trying to its just my personality and i feel awful..what should I do? ps i even straight up TELL THEM that i'm not interested in a relationship...I really don't know what to do..
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If you say they're ugly, and you're nice to them well then there probably gong to get instantly attached to you, especially if your more attractive than the usual women they talk to.
Just think of it like some ugly person who was always picked last and never asked out is suddenly being spoken to by an attractive young woman, and not just being spoken to but having a friendly conversation with! they would be thrilled and perhap with a lack of experience feel like it is the start of a relationship.
Now don't start being mean, but just keep everything clear, as soon as it is easy to fit into the conversation mention that you don't want a boyfriend (or lie and tell them about a male friend your very interested in one that actually exists and they'll never meet or will be willing to play along helps) and whenever you feel they are becoming too involved in their imaginary relationship with you remind them of this guy or that you are happy being single, and if they do accuse you of "leading them on" then you can just tell them "all through knowing you I have reminded you we are not together, how have I led you on?"
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If you feel like they are getting attached just remind them your not looking for a relationship right now. People arent ugly. There is just a certain person for each person.
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Just tell them that "I'm not really into having a relationship right now. I'm just too busy with other things" The sooner you rebuff these guys the sooner you'll be free of them.
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