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Hi im the 16 year old girl from before.There is one more thing though. This past week, the guy that is cheating on her right.. well this guys friend asked me to prom. They are all going in one limo together. She found out about this yesterday. I havnt said yes or no to the guy. He wants to go as friends. I am wondering if I should go or not? Prom is a very big deal to her n she's been preparing for months now, just so its perfect. I don't want to go and ruin her night just because I am there.. prom isn't a big deal to me and I don't really care about going nor do I like the guy, he is just a friend. I wouldn't mind not going, like I said I just don't want to ruin her nite. I asked her if me going would bother her, n she got mad and like 3times I don't really care what the hell you do just go if you want, just don't mess up his night, I don't care. I have a feeling though that she does care a little bit and im wondering if maybe I should just let her have her special night? Like I said I really don't care about going at all I would be going just to go, plus I have my own prom next year.. everyone is telling me go n mess up her night don't be dumb here's your chance. But I feel doing that isn't right if I still want her as my friend, also I was always taught two wrongs don't make a right.. I have no clue what to do and I have to answer this guy soon..(mind you she will only be at prom if the guy dosnt break up with her before prom which is friday) I don't think me not going will ruin his night becuss he only asked a few days ago, originally he was going with a bunch of friends anyways.
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I think you should go :)
why the hell not?? Why would you miss out on a fun night of dressing up and going out to dance with friends? what are you going to do instead.. sit at home alone and do nothing??
You really do need to stand up for yourself. Stop letting this girl push you down!!! She's pretty much saying "you don't deserve to go to prom, only I do".
Let me ask you this... If one of your friends (doesn't have to be her) says "Hey everybody I have tickets to a VIP backstage pass concert for a really popular singer" and she says "everyone can come but you. IF you want to stay my friend, then you can't come because this means a lot to me and I dont want you to ruin it." well what the fuck aren't you going to get pissed off?!? I'm really sorry if i sound bitchy right now but I have no clue how you can just sit there and let her do that to you. If i were you, I would stand up for myself and say "hey. If i want to go to prom, then I will go and have a good fucking time. I'm not going to let some girl tell me i can't go"
Let me tell you this- one time I went homecoming dress shopping with my friend Dani. I found 2 dresses I loved, but couldn't pick which one to buy. I was a little biased on 1 of the dresses but still wasn't sure. So i asked Dani for her opinion and she told me to buy the other dress (the one I wasn't sure about). Then literally 5 minutes after I bought that dress, she went and looked for the other one I was about to buy, and she bought that one.. SO pretty much she made me buy an uglier dress, just so she could have the prettier one and make her look good and make me look bad.
That is exactly what this girl is doing to you... she's playing with your mind and you have GOT to open your eyes and see it!!!! She sounds like my friend Dani. She wants to be the center of attention and be the prettiest and have the most awesome night. She will take down anything in her way... which in my case, dani made sure I didnt buy that dress, so she could have it. In your case- This girl is making sure you don't go to prom, just so she can have an awesome night.
Well if you want my honest opinion, she can have the shittiest prom of her life. You deserve to go to prom WAYYYY more than she does!!!!
So please please PLEASE take my advice. Go to prom. HAVE FUN!!! don't let this bitch (sorry for excessive swearing) get in your way of having a fun night with some friends :) Yeah you could go next year.. but what if you don't get asked?? take this chance and show her that you are strong enough to stand up for yourself. Don't let her or anyone else take you down like that. Its YOUR decision. She can't force you not to go... Just go and have a fun time and let her do whatever she wants. If she has a bad night, well karma. She shouldn't have treated you like that.
Good luck and PLEASE take my advice :) I garuntee you'll have a great time. and if you do go- don't let her or any other drama or troubles get you down. Shake it off, don't pay attention to her, and just dance and be with your date and have fun :)
If you go, please inbox me and let me know how it went :) I would love to hear about it!
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